Love Compatibility – Key Factor “S”
Posted by Donna Marie Thompson, PhD on Mar 17, 2011 in Happiness & Joy, Love Compatibility, Relationships | 0 comments
Let’s explore one dimension of love compatibility. The following quote refers to the value of your romantic relationship. How do you value yours?
The value of a relationship is in direct proportion to the time that you invest in the relationship. Brian Tracy
Love Compatibility Key Factor “S” = Support.
When exploring deep love compatibility, support means: ”Can your love count on you“? I am not referring to monetary support here; Uncle Ben is doing that for us. There is money sloshing everywhere – but I digress. Support for your love can take many forms – each situation is different; each need is different; each couple is different. Be aware of new support opportunities as they arise.
What Does It Mean?
Support in your relationship means that you are on their side - that you cut your love some slack. When your love is trying something new, working on a change, or doing something difficult – you are there to offer a back stop, a safety net of sorts to let them know that you believe in them. You support their cause, you support their initiative.
Support means letting them do what they set out to do, not stepping in to finish it, but providing any assistance that you can along the way. Support is categorically absent sarcasm and lacking cynicism. These sentiments have no place whatsoever in a healthy relationship and they are the antithesis of support.
Many relationship issues and relationship problems simply vanish with support.
Think of the last time your love needed support. Think of the last time that you were supportive of your love. What did you do to show your support? How did your love receive and accept your support? Are there some valuable lessons here?
What Does It Take?
What does it take to show support as a key dimension of love compatibility? Are you willing to go that extra mile for your love? If you’ve had support in your life, you already know the feeling. Why not share that feeling of support with your love?
What Can You Do Today?
In order to make your relationship stronger, what will you do today to show support for your love? Make it a personal development goal. Bring support into your relationship as a regular menu item and it will make a big difference. Happiness is based on support in your relationship.
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